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Boys play with trucks and guns. Girls play with dolls and tea sets. Stereotypes? Perhaps, but look around and observe how children play. Personally, I think parents stress the differences even more now because they have their own fears about their children developing sexual preferences as adults. Boys are raised to produce results. Girls are raised to receive. We have made some progress about equalizing the sexual stereotypes, but overall, not much.
Instinctively we have millions of years of programming to back up the absolute differences between men and women. I'm suggesting,in terms of relationships only, that we accept these differences and use them to facilitate having our man-woman relationships thrive.
It's my belief that boys become macho at birth and it is simply reinforced throughout their lives. I read once that every man can tell you the name of the bully who terrorized him about the age of 8. I have tested this theory and haven't yet found a man who can't come up with the name of his own bully. Their way of dealing with these bullies was to develop a mantra that they told themselves that they are tougher, stronger, and meaner than whoever is terrorizing them and they fought back. This is one of the differentiation points between men and women. Girl bullies fight with words. They sabotage and back stab. They whisper to other girls, start rumors and they attack each other's looks and clothes. Boys use their physical prowess to intimidate each other.
In the last 100 years, technology has exponentially exploded, creating terrible rifts in the balance of man/woman relationships. Women no longer need men to hunt, conquer and fight for them.Technology has evened the score so to speak between men and women.
Make no mistake, men are still physically superior to women and that intimidates women. Women, however, can take care of themselves. This unfortunately creates confusion in both sexes.Women want to be independent and yet instinctively they want men to take care of them. Men instinctively want to protect and take care
of women but now are intimidated by the thought that women want to do it themselves and thus, men don't really know what their role should be. It is more important than ever for women to express their appetite and ask for what they want.
Men are such wonderful creatures and most of the time everyone underappreciates them. Personally,Nike Shox Onine, I love men and everything about them. Since my whole theory of relationship is based upon the fact that men and women are different, it seemed time to elaborate on who men are and how did they get that way.
What is even more significant is the way that the adults in the family treat them.Jordan gets dressed in little dresses and everyone says how pretty she is. Zak and Justin are t-shirt and jeans boys and they are grubby and almost always have skinned knees or bruises. So what?
I had daughters, three of them to be exact and my husband was a wrestling coach. So, even though I was raising daughters, there were always males around to observe. Now I have two beautiful grandsons and one tiny granddaughter, Justin who is eight and Zak who is three and little Jordan who is two. The boys are both delightfully male and
even at the tender age of two there are some radical differences in our little girl. What is it that makes the boys male? Of course, there is the obvious,Nike Shox NZ Shoes, the male appendage which is the physical difference, but what is more noticeable is how they are in the world. Justin is into light saber fighting, baseball,video games, and action movies and even at the age of eight, Victoria Secret catalogues. He says he likes to look at the beautiful girls. Zak is a sword fighter,Shox NZ Sneakers, movie buff, spiderman superfan full of energy from the time he opens his eyes until he just can’t go anymore. He is a daredevil and must be watched every second. Little Jordan is athletic, keeps up with the boys and already has her daddy wrapped around her little finger. She is tough and physical and yet remains feminine.