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The process of moving forward can be helped in many ways. There are many options and possible routes to take. For example, one can study psychology, learn interpersonal skills, study spirituality or even hire the services of a life coach. These are just a few of the ways that one can move toward "self-actualization", as Maslow puts it.
Carl R Rogers, "On Becoming a Person, A therapist’s view of psychotherapy." ISBN-10 1-84529-057-7,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], ISBN-13 978-1-84529-057-3.
What is a Teachable Spirit and How Does that Help in Learning?
How to Become more Self Aware and Forge Ahead in Life
Life is a journey of learning. Most people start out with low level of self-awareness and may lack self-confidence, self-worth and self-esteem. According to Carl Rogers (father of Person Centered Therapy),[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], all people have the innate capability to become confident and fulfilled human beings.
One of the biggest problems is that people have become harder to teach. Having a hard, closed mind means that the seeds of wisdom cannot even penetrate the soil,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], let alone put down good roots. Having a "humble and teachable spirit" is the first requirement when one wants to learn how to change for the better.
Being Secretive and Arrogant are Barriers to Growth and Self Realization
Having an Open Mind and Being Fertile Ground for Change
Unfortunately, none of the above methods will help if the ground where the seeds are sown is hard and stony. All seeds, including the seeds of growth and change, need a fertile ground if they are to send out roots. Only then can one draw nourishment and flourish in life.
Being arrogant or secretive are character traits that are not conducive to the process of becoming self-aware. They create barriers to learning – the "stony ground" that will not enable seeds of new ways of thinking to germinate and take root.
A little hard work can pay enormous dividends in terms of self understanding, self awareness and confidence. It is a little like planting seeds in the garden and then waiting for the results to show a few months later.
However,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], many people find that they are stuck in a rut and unable to forge ahead. This can manifest itself as general unhappiness or frustration – a feeling that life is not all that it should be. It can also be the cause of physical illness and symptoms like insomnia and stress.
A teachable spirit is somebody who acknowledges that they don't "know it all." They have sufficient respect for the teacher to keep an open and positive mind, seeking the best part of the wisdom that is being offered. They realize that it is important to be honest about their feelings and experiences as repressing true feelings is often the cause of stagnation.
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As one Life Coach recently put it, some individuals don't have the ability to learn because of their closed-minded attitude and inability to be honest with either themselves or with those who are trying to help them.
Being closed and secretive is usually caused by fear of judgment. Moving towards self-awareness and freedom means letting go of that fear in the knowledge that everybody has a shady side, but that this is not what defines us - but if allowed to, it will hinder our journey into a brighter future.
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