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ldren are little angels, especially when they are asleep. When your child is oblivious to the world and blissfully dreaming, it is easy to forgive and forget the rollercoaster ride they gave you during the day. Children learn new things everyday and push the boundaries of good behaviour in order to find out what is and isn't acceptable. Having your toddler arguing with you can be dismaying [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but it's just how they test the waters. You don't have to put up with it though!
When you have a toddler who thinks it is amusing or clever to talk back, ignore it at your own expense. A toddler talking back is different from a toddler throwing a tantrum. Don't show that the remark has upset you though. Rather, you have to call out the misdemeanor. Calmly make it clear to the child that such behaviour is displeasing. Clarify why it is unacceptable for him to speak that way and that you will not tolerate any repeat incidents. Now is also the time to outline the consequences of such behaviour as well. Keep it short and simple so that the child understands.
Once you have set the boundaries for what is considered good behaviour, do not reward any toddler arguing with the attention they're looking for. This means halting the conversation completely until he stops talking back. Consistently ignoring backtalk after clarifying why it is unacceptable teaches the child that such attention-seeking tactics are futile and pointless.
If the child is adamant about continuing with this behaviour, then you need to assert your authority. Carry out the punishment promised earlier in a swift and prompt manner. This enables the child to draw a direct relation between his behaviour and his consequences. Do not allow the child to bargain with you. If you have stated that any backtalk means 10 minutes in a corner or alone in his room, be firm about it.
Reward good behaviour to reinforce the lesson. No matter how rebellious a child appears [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], pleasing a parent is usually their main priority. Just as bad behaviour is promptly dealt with [link widoczny dla zalogowanych], praise and encourage respectful conversation when you see it. The child will soon learn that there's an easier and more peaceful way to get your attention and affection.
Bad habits are easy to pick up but take a long time to break. Patience and consistence is the key to success when you are training your child to behave well.


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